I found these tips online written by Roberta Kyle. I care greatly about the health of smokers and understand how difficult the quitting & staying smoke free process can be. Hope this information is valuable.
Six Specific Tips To Help You Stay Smoke Free
Tip#1 Turn the Loss Into a Gain
As a recent ex-smoker, you are almost certainly mourning the loss of a good friend. Even though you are feeling better, you may find yourself nostalgic about smoking from time to time, You miss it. You only remember the good moments. You tell yourself you enjoyed smoking. You did? Really? No you didn’t. That’s why they call it addiction.
You can take those feelings of loss and turn them into a gain by doing small things that cumulatively make a big difference. For example, when you brush your teeth, think about how clean and fresh your mouth feels and imagine how it used to feel before you quit. Leave a note on your fridge about how much better food tastes now that you don’t smoke. Get the idea? Focus on what you have gained not what you miss about smoking. Make a gratitude list of things you like about being smoke free and post it near your bed. Read it every night before you go to sleep.
#Tip 2 Reward Yourself for Not Smoking
Every day that you don’t smoke, do something nice for yourself. Here’s my personal favorite. This helped me a lot when I was quitting. Figure out how much money you spent on cigarettes every day. Get a big jar and put that amount of money in it faithfully every day that you do not smoke. Make it a ritual. You will be amazed at how quickly the money adds up. At the end of the week or, if you prefer, the end of the month, use the money you saved in the jar to buy something nice for yourself. Make that something you will use and see and enjoy. It will remind you of your success.
#Tip 3 Get Rid of The Smoke in Your Life.
Now that you can actually smell dead tobacco, you know how awful it is. Get it out of your house, your clothes, your car, your office–everywhere. Wash, scrub, clean, paint, throw away. Get rid of ashtrays, lighters and of course, don’t keep any cigarettes in your home. Do what you have to do to get everything around you clean and sweet smelling. Repaint rooms if you have to. Get your car detailed. Do what you have to do. After you have put in all that time and effort, you won’t want to mess things up by smoking
#Tip 4 Don’t Use Fear of Weight Gain As an Excuse for Relapse
The fact of the matter is you probably will gain some weight when you quit. Do not, under any circumstances, let weight gain drive you back to smoking. Things will subside eventually and you will be able to lose the weight. If you give in and start smoking again, you will be heavier AND smoking and, trust me, I know, you will feel horrible about yourself. There are physiological reasons why you gain weight when you quit smoking. Relax and go with the flow and don’t pick up even one cigarette.
#Tip 5 Stay Away From Your Personal Psychological Triggers
Of course you are going to surround yourself with people who support your non smoking as much as possible. But, you might also want to make some temporary changes in your routine for a few weeks until the new non-smoking you really takes hold. I switched from coffee to tea in the morning because for me, the idea of drinking coffee without having a cigarette was more than I could bear. If you like a few beers after work, you might want to forgo them for a few weeks. Alcohol lowers inhibitions. People tend to smoke in bars, and if you associate smoking and drinking this could be a real pitfall.
If you always smoke first thing in the morning. Brush your teeth and use mouthwash first thing instead. Make a list of your personal triggers. Talking on the phone? Stress at work? after a workout? After meals? Think about the times when you are most likely to miss having a smoke and substitute something else. make it a game.
# Tip 6 Revisit the Medical Literature on Smoking
When I was a smoker I simply tuned out all the statistics about longevity and no part of me wanted to look at pictures of diseased lungs or look at videos made by people with advanced COPD. I somehow operated under the illusion that it could not happen to me. Once I quit, I took another look at all the statistics and found that I saw them with new eyes. I was especially interested in how quickly the body healed from the effects of smoking and how quickly my disease and mortality risks went down. Do some quick surfing on the web and you will be fascinated by what you find that will reinforce your decision not to smoke.
What You Need to Remember
What you need to remember is that you have done a wonderful thing for yourself by quitting. This is true whether you have been smoking for six months or thirty years. By quitting you have added years to your life and life to your years. Whether this is your first try or your tenth, you can make it your last if you remember what I said at the beginning– that there is no such thing as just having one cigarette. You cannot have even one puff. Out wait the urges, use your bag of mental tricks and the desire will lessen, the cravings will become weaker and further and further apart and you will, within a matter of a few months, be really tobacco free. Congratulations on winning your battle with the cigarette beast and welcome to the world of happy, healthy ex-smokers.
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